A Match Making Romance - For the Spiritual Community
by: Mona Magick
A Match Making Romance -
For the spiritual community
Romance has never been more
colorful!! From arranged marriages, cohabitation, interracial, incestuous,
long-distance, to adultery and now homosexual marriages…. This is only
to name a few. But with so many people turning away from their practice of
religion and choosing a realization of spirituality in many respects more
and more forms of relationships will begin to develop.
I must say that I have found
many a spiritualist in the single category than in the secular religious category.
Many times it is because once one partner grows to a spiritual plateau it's
expected to some degree that the other will at some point or want to. Bottom
line… it has to be realized that the person you married or is with may
have served his or her purpose in all your areas of life and it's time to
move on. However, I am a strong believer in giving it all you have "mutually"
until you've reached your threshold. These days I'd be lying to you to say
that there are many "conventional" romances left and if they are
left at some point the unconventional will either be knocking at the door
at some point. As to if the door will open is a matter of those individuals
involved. (A.K.A. "Temptation")
So what is a spiritually
enlightened person to do when you have reached a certain point in your life
and you want to find that special someone with not only the same interest
but the same spiritual values as you do? Number one you've heard many clichés
telling you that love finds "you" when you least expect it. But
really lets be realist here…. The likelihood of you finding someone who
will accept your daily rituals to an ancient god, or your Reiki sessions,
not to mention your chanting is not very high. Personally, I have never had
a problem being "me" but have refrained from personal relationships
until the universe gives me the green light and presents a worthy, dedicated
and compatible individual. However, for those of you who feel that you're
ready to share and grow here some proven guidelines for those who walk the
spiritual path:
- For spells done in attracting
that special someone, before you work on someone else to cast a spell on
use your energies to cast the spell on yourself first! Spells that release
your negative energy, and make you stronger as an individual. Those attracted
to you will be attracted to you as you are, and who you are should be brought
out in your spell work. Once you have met this person after this spell,
then there are many other spells to work from in the matter of love. Contrary
to many love spells, many should work on the individual wanting the relationship
rather than working on the intended individual.
- Don't choose someone within
your spiritual community only because he or she is in your community. Make
sure you also you at least have gold to aspire towards outside of your spirituality.
If you only allow your significant other to see the part they accept they
cannot know to love you completely.
- Match made on this earth?
If you at one time was in love with the person you are now with but due
to your spiritual growth feel otherwise then it is best to work with your
karmic fulfillment and be rid of your relationship. I do not mean pay the
person off with a large sum of money…although for many this would be
ideal. What I mean is to work out your differences properly. Do not be deceitful,
vengeful or harmful etc. to the point that you must work this out yet "again"
in your next life.
- Know what you want in
a relationship before you go into one. Have the courage to bring your desires,
your goals and issues in the beginning. Many times things worked out in
the beginning when they're brought to the front is best than having your
spouse find out later which only amounts to confusion, anger and possible
separation.
- Lastly, meeting that special
someone can be really like a needle in a hey stack when you're dealing with
over and beyond the physical compatibility…to combine spirituality.
So for starters here are some links below to hopefully get you started if
not with romance, friendship:
Tantric
Connections
An Adult Oriented service. It is intended for Pagans, Occultists, Mystics,
and others, within the Mystical Community who are also involved in Alternative
Lifestyles.
EHarmony
their unique matching system connects you with singles who are compatible
with you in 29 of the most important areas of life.
Spiritual
Singles
Online spirirtual based match-maker service.
Astral Hearts
Metaphysical classified and personals
Dating
by horoscopes
based on the best traditions of Chinese and Western astrology.
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